{"id":696,"date":"2024-04-17T10:19:51","date_gmt":"2024-04-17T10:19:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/upliftindy.org\/?p=696"},"modified":"2024-04-24T10:22:53","modified_gmt":"2024-04-24T10:22:53","slug":"created-to-do-life-together-shepherd-staff-member-shares-special-bond-with-one-family-of-neighbors","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/upliftindy.org\/index.php\/2024\/04\/17\/created-to-do-life-together-shepherd-staff-member-shares-special-bond-with-one-family-of-neighbors\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Created to do life together\u2019: Shepherd staff member shares special bond with one family of neighbors"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The Greek word \u201cparaclete\u201d is used in the Bible as a name for both the Holy Spirit and Jesus.&nbsp; One meaning of the word is \u201chelper,\u201d and in that sense, Shepherd Community Center Director of Development Kolton Williford serves as a paraclete to a family on the near Eastside of Indianapolis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kolton shares his experiences with the family here:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI have known this family for nine years. I love their family, and my heart breaks for what they have experienced. I pause sometimes to think, \u2018Where would this family be without a Shepherd Community Center?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As a parent of daughters, I now pray more often than I used to. This family consists of a mother, five daughters, and an abusive and absent father. It\u2019s a story that is all too familiar in the neighborhood we serve and in many surrounding ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fathers not being present in the lives of their family continues to break our society and strengthen cycles of poverty. I am thankful that Shepherd works to combat that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I speak with the mom or visit the family\u2019s home, she often greets me with an exhausted smile, but she is always welcoming. She works nights at a good job in the hospitality industry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The family has been connected to Shepherd for over 17 years. I met the eldest daughter when she was 8 years old as I served in a summer intern role nine years ago. I continued to grow in my connection with the family when I introduced a Shepherd donor and volunteer to her through a tutoring program. The two instantly connected, and their relationship grew strong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The donor has not only stayed in contact with the eldest daughter but has connected with the other four girls as well as the mother.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On Dec. 23, 2022, a Shepherd colleague who pastors the family and I sat at their dinner table for several hours after they all opened Christmas presents that were provided by another generous donor. I saw hope and joy in the eyes of the mother and the five girls. As we told stories and discussed the daughters\u2019 goals and dreams, I was reminded that sometimes the most powerful thing we can do for our neighbors is simply to be <em>with<\/em> them. We are created to do life together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This again raises the question: &#8216;Where would this family \u2013 and many others \u2013 be without Shepherd?&#8217; Shepherd is a special place, but what makes it so special are the kids, families, and individuals we serve.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My purpose is to authentically love others and to care for the vulnerable. What&#8217;s yours? How do you get to live that out?\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Greek word \u201cparaclete\u201d is used in the Bible as a name for both the Holy Spirit and Jesus.&nbsp; One meaning of the word is \u201chelper,\u201d and in that sense, Shepherd Community Center Director of Development Kolton Williford serves as a paraclete to a family on the near Eastside of Indianapolis. 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